Wednesday, May 24th, 2023
They started their day with joint venture.
A bike ride would be their adventure.
By hitting a hole
That changed out his role.
The cyclist became a backbencher.
Are you receiving the help offered?
I think things show up bigger,
When there is a medical “blip”
In a household.
All levels seem to take more attention.
How long it takes to get to the bathroom.
How many layers need removing?
Fabrics that fight rearranging, or
Materials that slide to right position?
Big concerns, small details
All are part of a day that works well—
Or not.
What I have really noticed is,
How genuinely willing folks are to help.
“What can I do for you?” is a honest inquiry.
The gift of being listened to—
Huge, at any time.
Even bigger when household-usual is
Out-of-whack.
Patiently being heard
Without an agenda of
How-to, should-have, need-to,
Is a big part of healing for all those involved.
I’m being given that gift,
By authentic, open-hearted folks
Who are patiently open to being present.
I am grateful.
Aware of how we are receiving care.
Hugs,
Lin
Margaret Goodman told me about Bob’s fall from his bike and I just read your two entries. Sounds like you are both adjusting and you’ll probably both be in your bikes before you know it.
Prayers and thinking about both of you.
I know you’ll stay strong and optimist as always.
Hugs
Susan
Thank you for the good thoughts and words! Much appreciated. 🙂